Caught My Wife Cheating

My friend came to me and said 'I caught my wife cheating', I was shocked, anyway, a wife caught cheating on video, is absolute proof. So you want know how to tell if your wife is cheating, there are obviously many signs of a wife cheating and in the article below we show 3 great tips to help.

How To Catch Your Wife Cheating - 3 Tips For Investigation

How to catch you wife cheating can be an awful process to go through but for men who suspect they have a cheating spouse the need to know and be sure is an immediate concern as the not knowing is often worse than finding out the truth.

The reason for this is that if you do not have proof you will constantly be thinking 'is my wife cheating' and the anxiety and paranoia can destroy your marriage even if you might actually be mistaken! The point of trying to catch a cheating spouse is that you can at least have the whole story and be able to move on, confront them with facts or whatever action you want to take ... but you can take it with more confidence. The trust is already destroyed in your relationship if you know or just suspect so stop wondering is she cheating and find out for sure for everyone's benefit.


How to catch my wife cheating then you ask?

Private investigators can do this with a wide variety of methods but if you pay attention you can do this on your own as long as you keep a calm disposition, a logical frame of mind and be aware of what she is doing and saying. Some techniques that find clues and proof are listed below:

1. Digital Communications - One of the most important ways to catch a cheating spouse is to investigate the digital 'paper trail' that we all leave in this modern age of cell phones, emails, internet dating sites, social networking sites and more. Cell phones are a good source of phone numbers to investigate and SMS messages to spy on and the home computer (or work computer) can contain emails, internet site histories, internet cache, or if they are sloppy just bookmarks to suspect sites. If this proves to be a dead end and too clean they may realize you might be looking and deleting everything to cover their tracks ... this may not be the end as there is software than can track peoples movements on a computer without being detected that could be of use.
2. Bank accounts - Money is often needed when in an affair as a cheat often gives gifts, pays for motel rooms, dinners and so forth. While a woman is often harder to track as men tend to do the paying anomalies can be found in credit card statements and bank accounts statements. Payment to expensive restaurants, motels or even to buy birth control or sexy underwear you have never seen might raise a flag. Also large sums of money withdrawn from ATMs may be in indication that they are trying to pay for cash on things so they cannot be traced in this way and can be a vital clue.
3. Time - Time is the most important asset to a cheating spouse as they need time to be with their lover and this is something you need to track. Where are they? Why did they take so long to get home from work? Why is nothing done when she said she would be cleaning all day? These are some questions to ask yourself but remember not to be too direct or to get too nosey on this matter until you have more proof because this can cause more problems in the long run.

While it may be hard to stay unemotional during this period it is vital to do so when you set ask yourself how to catch my wife cheating. Without expert advice though you can make some serious mistakes that can damage things further and make it harder to catch them cheating.

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How To Tell If Your Wife is Cheating

Don't let it happen! Catch your wife before everybody knows, except you! Watch carefully, if it's true, you'll always discover a sign of a cheating wife

How To Tell If Your Wife is Cheating by TJ

Do you suspect that your wife is cheating on you? If you do, you are definitely not alone. Infidelity is actually quite common these days. You can see it all over television and almost everyone has known someone who has been cheated on, in one way or another.

If you are a husband who thinks that your wife is cheating on you, there are a number of signs that you will want to be on the lookout for. The following are four signs that could very well confirm your suspicions.

A change in appearance is the first sign your wife is cheating. If your wife has gone through a change in appearance, it could be a sign that she is cheating on you. What you will want to look for is small, but significant changes in appearance.

For example, has she always worn glasses but has all of a sudden opted for contact lenses? Has your wife recently started showing more skin? Dressing provocatively is a common sign of cheating, especially if your wife typically dresses conservatively. Switching perfumes or wearing it more often can be another sign of cheating. This can be done to impress a new man or to cover up another man's scent.

A change in the amount of affection that your wife gives you could be seen as a sign of having an affair. For example, has your love life been happy and healthy in the past? Was your relationship filled with fun, adventure, and great sex? If so, has that changed? If your wife no longer compliments you as she did before or does something as simple as pull away during a kiss, an affair may be going on. Many cheating women try to avoid close contact with their husbands in fear of getting caught or letting their guilt show.

Secrecy could be another sign your wife is cheating. A wife becoming more secretive can often point to an extramarital affair. For example, does your wife spend too much time on the phone or the internet? If so, what does she say when you ask her what she is doing? If you receive a "nothing," or a "not your business," response, something may be going on.

In keeping with phone and internet use, does your wife automatically hang-up the phone whenever you walk into a room? Does she shut off the computer or try to block your view of it? If so, your wife's secrecy may mean that she is trying to cover up an affair.

Changes in bills are also a sign your wife is cheating. One of the simplest ways to catch a cheating wife is to start paying your bills. In most relationships, this is the woman's responsibility, but makes it yours. Examine your wife's cell phone bills. Does it show what phone numbers are called or what numbers text messages and pictures are received from? Also, closely examine credit card bills. Are there expenses listed for hotel rooms, vacations, restaurants, or anything else that you have no idea about? If so, your wife may be cheating on you.

The above mentioned signs are just a few of the many that you will want to look for in a cheating wife. If you think that your wife is cheating on you, just be sure to keep your eyes and ears open. Unfortunately for the cheaters, they often make mistakes. Many women get so comfortable, that they slip up at one time or another. If you know what to look for, this is when you may be able to catch your wife cheating.

If you do catch your wife cheating on you, you may want to carefully approach the subject. Never confront your wife in front of your children. No matter how angry you are, do not get violent and try to keep your voice at a reasonable level. As hard as it can be, calming approaching the situation can better allow you and your wife to have an honest discussion. This is where you can discuss what will happen to you and your relationship next.

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How to Stop Your Wife From Cheating

Now this is a really good article by Susan Dunn,MA, Emotional Intelligence Coach ~ How to Stop Your Wife from Cheating

Is YOUR wife one of the growing number of "cheating wives" in the US? Is she going to be? What's good for the gander is now good for the goose, according to recent studies. The number of cheating wives is growing, and may soon equal the number of cheating husbands. You need to know the signs, because you can't stop her if you don't know she's doing it. You also need to know the preventatives, because prevention is the very best cure. WHY IS SHE CHEATING? 1. Opportunity. With working outside the home, working out, travel and the Internet, "when there's a will there's a MUCH easier way."

2. Desire + Permission. You can't hit a website these days without reading about the G-spot, Astroglide, and multiple orgasms. Women now have the same permission as men to be into their sexuality.

3. She wants to be driven wild with desire and you don't know how to do it. Women's desire and arousal aren't connected like a man's. In fact, the company that makes Viagra® has finally given up trying to make a similar pill for women, after years of research. As someone said, men are like microwaves and women are like conventional ovens, they need to be preheated.

4. You aren't establishing the emotional connection that primes the preheating. Too close, too much time together, and you smother one another. Too distant, too little time with her, and she'll look elsewhere.

5. Your relationship isn't sensual enough. For more information on why to sensualize your relationship and practical instructions on how to, see my e-manual. "Sensualizing Your Relationship."

6. You aren't showing and expressing your appreciation. If she's interested in it, and you can afford it, get it for her.

7. You're saying too many negative things about her and the relationship. Say three positive things for every negative thing. You guys are supposedly great at rule-based systems, so plug that formula in and use it. It's the Magic Formula.

8. You haven't developed your empathy. You can't tell her feelings and intentions. This is a big "not good" one.

9. You chose wrong in the first place, and need to figure out why. WHAT ARE THE SIGNS? 1. She's losing weight and sprucing up her appearance. New hairstyle, nails, new clothes.

2. Change in style of dress. She's accommodating to a new man's taste, or he's buying her new things.

3. New lingerie you aren't getting to see, but it's there in the lingerie drawer.

4. Phone calls at odd times. When you answer, they hang up.

5. A huge change in the landline phone bill, and/or cell phone bill.

6. She's become distant. Seems distracted. Talks to you less in general.

7. She's lax about your comings and goings. She doesn't care what you're up to any more.

8. Less arguments. Her mind is elsewhere. The same things don't matter to her any more. (In this case, less "nagging" is not a good sign.)

9. She stays away from the house and has suspicious reasons for doing so.

10. She suddenly has to work late and weekends all the time.

11. She's weakened relations with her parents, spending less time with them, less visits, saying less. Same with girlfriends.

12. You come home early and find a babysitter. (Let's hope you don't find the lover.)

13. You find telltale things in the glove box and trunk of the car; fancy lingerie, notes, cards, phone numbers.

14. Flowers arriving at the house. She says they're from her boss, a colleague or a friend.

15. Unaccountable charges on your credit cards.

16. You're over budget. She's asking for more money. People having an affair spend money. They buy gifts for their lover, go to motels, rent cars, travel. Women do this just as much as men.

17. Disappearing to spend time on the Internet. A good way to meet people or to conduct an affair.

18. Strange emails. If you have joint email, check it out.

19. Changes in the children's behaviour. Children don't miss what's going on.

20. Change in your sex life. More interest in variety in sex and new things. She's learning something new from the new guy. Or she's no longer interested in sex with you.

21. Lapses in routines. She's no longer that interested when you track in mud, whether you drop your dirty clothes on the floor, or working in her garden. Studies show that many people who have affairs aren't interested in leaving their spouses. If you catch the signs early, you can do something about it. A good, supportive marital relationship can generally bear the strain of temptation. It goes without saying it relies on emotional intelligence and relationship skills. Women particularly need the emotional connection, and sensual time as well as sexual. One key to a marriage that will last is if the couple can sense when one another is sad. Can you tell when she is? If not, work on your EQ. It's empathy, an EQ competency. Another sign is when the number of positive things they say about each other and relationship outnumber the negative things. All couples have problems, but attitude and relationship skills can tip the balance. If you're saying, "It's not that bad yet," look again. Why would you wait until it IS that bad. Desire comes from arousal with women when there is intimacy and emotional connection. You know this, and if you're ignoring it, you may be re-reading those 21 signs and adding some more of your own. I hear men say all the time, "I had no idea she was unhappy. She just walked out one day." This sort of "cluelessness" is probably what made her wander in the first place. She may have been telling you all along something was wrong and you weren't hearing it (selective listening). All of this can be addressed by working on your emotional intelligence. If you're not good at reading her feelings and intention, this can be fatal to your relationship with your wife. The good news is you can learn Emotional Intelligence, and improve your relationship and chances of being cheated on. If you don't want your wife to cheat on you, get smart. Get EMOTIONALLY smart!

About the Author

(c)Susan Dunn, MA, Emotional Intelligence Coach, http://www.susandunn.cc . Susan is the author of "Sensualizing Your Relationship" an emanual ( http://www.webstrategies.cc/ebooklibrary.html ) and The EQ Foundation Course ( www.susandunn.cc/courses.htm ) two products that can save your marriage. She offers coaching, Internet courses and teleclasses. Mailto:sdunn@susandunn.cc for FREE ezine. Put "ezine" for subject line.

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