Sunday, May 13, 2007

Sign Of A Cheating Wife

Sign Of A Cheating Wife

They always leave several signs, here's a really good article, 58 Clues Your Partner is Having an Affair by Sydney Guishard

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Here are some signs that can tip you off that you have a cheating husband or cheating wife. Feel free to forward this list to anyone who might be interested. I just ask that you don't change anything and include the author box.

Signs of a Cheating Spouse:

1) He just got a new cell phone but surprisingly the bill gets sent to his office address.

2) Your partner suddenly starts taking more business trips that last longer.

3) He no longer wants the baby seat in his car.

4) You can't get your spouse to talk to you anymore.

5) Sex life? You hardly have sex any more.

6) Wow! Your sex life has suddenly taken off.

7) Your partner is paying way too much attention to you.

8) Your partner is ignoring you.

9) Your spouse is neglecting everyday chores and tasks.

10) He starts paying a lot of attention to a clean car. Everything is spotless inside and out.

11) You find you have to readjust the passenger seat every time you get in the car.

12) She seems to be working late at the office more than usual.

13) He has condoms even though you're on the birth control pill. She takes the pill even though you've had a vasectomy.

14) She just got a new male friend but she says not to worry because he's gay or recently engaged.

15) Your partner is always running late.

16) When your partner comes home his hair is wet.

17) She always seems to be forgetting to wear her wedding ring.

18) He has suddenly taken up jogging when he normally only runs to the fridge.

19) You start smelling alcohol on her breath even though she came "straight home from work".

20) Your Spidey senses are tingling. You just get the feeling that something is going on with your spouse. Your intuition or gut feeling is talking to you.

21) He starts to buy new clothes and starts looking REALLY, REALLY good.

22) She gets a new email address and doesn't tell you about it.

23) She races you to the mail box to get the phone bill first.

24) You notice charges on your credit card statement that make no sense.

25) Your spouse seems more secretive. They are definitely hiding something.

26) You can't get your partner to fight anymore even when you try really hard to make him or her mad.

27) Your partner doesn't want to go anywhere or do anything with you anymore.

28) He/She goes to another room to make private phone calls.

29) Your partner's friends seem to be uncomfortable around you -- like they know something.

30) You start getting an unusual number of telephone hang-ups.

31) Your partner encourages you to take a vacation alone.

32) Your spouse starts getting defensive when you ask if something is going on.

33) Your partner starts wearing new cologne or perfume.

34) You notice lipstick on his collar, or worse - his underwear!

35) She deletes the phone log on her cell phone at least 5 times a day.

36) He turns off his cell phone when you are together like he's afraid to take a call beside you.

37) She becomes paranoid and uncomfortable even when you ask the most innocent questions.

38) Your partner spends many hours on the computer or phone after you've gone to bed.

39) He makes a brand new CD to play in the car.

40) Your partner has set up special security on the computer that you can't access.

41) The internet browser history is deleted whenever you go to use a shared computer.

42) Your partner is spending less and less time with you.

43) She never seems to be at her desk when you call.

44) Use your nose. Your partner smells differently when they leave the house in the morning compared to when they come home in the evening. A different cologne or soap smell.

45) Your spouse suddenly becomes interested in new, different types of music.

46) Your partner starts talking differently, using different phrases and sayings and knowing more on a new subject.

47) Your spouse has unusual scratches or bruises on their neck, back or arms and you know the cat's not responsible.

48) Your partner has his/her cell phone locked down better than Fort Knox.

49) He never returns your calls when he's out.

50) She has more of a "glow" about her.

51) Your spouse's underwear never makes it to the laundry or it appears to be rinsed before getting to the laundry hamper.

52) He heads to the shower or brushes his teeth as soon as he walks in the door.

53) He starts buying new underwear.

54) She buys new underwear and always wears matching bras and panties.

55) He starts doing his own laundry.

56) Your spouse starts receiving small unexplained gifts.

57) She tells you she's trying a Brazilian wax.

58) He learns how to remove hair. He now clips his nose hairs, trims his pubic hair and tweezes the hair growing out of his ears.
About the Author

Sydney Guishard is a Relationship coach and has helped hundreds of couples improve their marriage. Is your marriage headed to divorce? Take the Free Relationship Assessment http://www.themarriagerescue.com/quiz

Sign Of A Cheating Wife

Thursday, May 10, 2007

How To Catch A Cheating Spouse

A good article on how to catch a cheating spouse. check for these signs today! Hope it's of use.
Steven
Sign Of A Cheating Wife

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How To Catch A Cheating Spouse: Possible Indications Of A Cheating Spouse by M. Markella

How can you tell if your husband/wife is cheating on you? Will you hire a private investigator and make him/her rich? Will you buy the next popular surveillance equipment to spy on your spouse? Will you stay calm and take a good look at the facts? Here's a list of "Signs" of a cheating spouse that you should pay attention to before doing anything else.

Cheating Sign #1: You should know your spouse more than anyone else. Is he/she more affectionate lately? At the beginning of an affair people feel guilty and show more affection than usual, towards their spouses.

Cheating Sign #2: Cheating spouses might lose their interest in everyday activities like taking kids to school or spending time with them, taking care of the garden etc.

Cheating Sign #3: Unexpected sexual requests. Cheating spouses may demand more or less sex. If their sexual behavior suddenly changes then there's something going on.

heating Sign #4: Cheating spouses usually develop a defense mechanism. This causes their behavior towards family to change dramatically. They become more distant and cold. Many of them will start blaming others for their own mistakes.

Cheating Sign #5: Have you noticed unexplained credit card charges in your spouse's credit card? Wondering who made an unexpected withdrawal from your family bank account? Financial change is a major "cheating" sign.

Cheating Sign #6: Has your spouse become more attentive to his/her personal appearance? Does he/she suddenly buys a lot of new clothes or other beauty accessories like a new perfume/cologne? Does he/she suddenly takes frequent baths or decides to go to the gym? There must be a reason for all these changes.

Cheating Sign #7: Have you noticed perfume odors on your spouse's clothes? Have you discovered a lipstick or underwear that don't belong to your spouse? How about unexpected gifts supposedly coming from co-workers or his/her boss? These are all signs that should alarm you.

Cheating Sign #8: Does your spouse whisper on the phone? Does he/she sounds alarmed or suddenly hangs up the phone when you enter the room? Ask your spouse who was on the phone and make sure he/she told you the truth. Try to find out who called.

Cheating Sign #9: Your spouses mobile phone. Cheating spouses usually make/receive a lot of phone calls through their mobile phone (if they have one). Check out your spouse's mobile phone bill. See if there are any unexpected/unknown phone numbers. Also, take a look at the hours the phone calls took place. Are there any calls that took place right after your spouse left home for work or just before he/she returns home?

These are all signs of a cheating spouse and there are more. You should be alarmed if you notice sudden changes in your spouse's behavior but the best thing to do is to remain calm and think what will be your next step. Don't make false assumptions and don't be hasty. Have you heard of the new divorced Barbie doll? - She comes with all of Ken's stuff!
About the Author

If you suspect your spouse may be cheating on you then you are about to discover what they've been doing, when they've been doing it, who they've been doing it with and a lot more by using the techniques described in this guide about how to catch a cheating spouse the easy way. There's also a free newsletter jam-packed with the hottest information to help you.

Sign Of A Cheating Wife