Friday, October 06, 2006

Surviving infidelity

An excellent article by Simion Seru

How To Tell If Your Wife Is Cheating And more Importantly How To stop Her Cheating!


First of all let’s look at the obvious tell tale signs, that your wife is cheating, there are lots of them, but I believe these to be the best.

1. Suddenly, she takes four hours to get ready instead of two!
This is one of the best signs, appearance! New hair style or much more regular visits to the hair salon, different perfume, new clothes, new underwear, has her nails done, etc,etc.

2. Nips out to the shop dressed immaculately and returns two hours later saying she met an old friend from years ago.

3. She panics when the phone rings.

4. Here’s a classic, less arguing at home, she doesn’t mind if you go out with the lads, she lets you do things at home where she always used to moan, nag and make a big deal about it.

Well, there’s just a few of the better cheating wife signs, obviously there are lots more. These signs do not mean your wife is definitely cheating, but I would start taking a close look at her actions and movements. Please don’t jump in screaming, only to find out you were wrong, this could be disastrous.

But what also interests me is how to stop infidelity.

How to stop your wife cheating in the first place.

Be a gentleman! Sounds really corny, but a lady likes to be fussed over, she has to feel loved and needed. Buy her some flowers, chocolates, take her out to dinner, to the cinema. These are things every husband or boyfriend should be doing on a regular basis, it doesn’t mean you have to go crazy, but once a week, or even once a month, make her feel special.

She needs to be your best friend, you need to talk regular about anything and everything, take more of an interest in the things your wife likes, every now and then do something around the house that you don’t normally do, like, collecting the washing, bathing the kids, you may already do these, but simply make a small effort to help out with things you don’t normally do.

If you are reading this article, you probably suspect your wife is cheating, know she’s cheating, or have been cheated on and don’t want it to happen again. It’s not nice and also the husband is normally the last to know when his wife has been cheating.

Simion Seru is an expert in cheating spouses, how to stop spouses cheating and how to survive infidelity. For help and great resources go to, How To Tell If Your wife is Cheating

Sign of a cheating Wife

Tuesday, September 19, 2006

Sign Of A Cheating Wife

Sign Of A Cheating Wife

Article Title: Infidelity Investigation by Terry Ross

If you have your suspicions that your partner is having anaffair, but for your own peace of mind you need to be surea bout the infidelity, investigation is an option but, before you go out and hire a private investigator, make sure that you know what you are getting yourself in to.

There is no doubt that infidelity is one of the hardest things anyone ever has to go through and the period when the first suspicions develop is one of the worst. The not knowing, just wondering where your partner is and what they are doing plays havoc with the mind and trying to decide what to do is painful.

There are many options to catch a cheating spouse and trying towade through them can be daunting but you need to be sure that before your infidelity investigation gets under way you have chosen the right option for you.

When choosing the route of private investigator one of the biggest mistakes you can make is to tell your partner that they are being investigated. Often it is in the heat of the moment and not something that was meant to come out but it does happen, in fact it happens a lot. People aren’t always so stupid as to let slip to their spouses but find it difficult not to confide in their friends, colleagues or family.

Infidelity is something that is difficult and for some people impossible to cope with alone but once you decide to confirm your suspicions of the infidelity, investigation through a private investigator is your chosen path, and the initial steps have been taken, you must be sure that you can go it alone. No one ever means to break a confidence but it is so easily done, just one slip of the tongue and it’s all over, the investigation is sabotaged.

If you decide to go for it make sure you are able to keep quiet, not just at the start but through the whole investigation even if early feedback appears to confirm what you originally thought you have to be able to keep quiet right to the end. You can’t confide in a friend and you can’t confront your spouse, you can’t even change in the way you act towards your partner. If you think you are up to it then your first step is to hire a licensed private investigator. The investigator, once instructed will basically follow your spouse and monitor their activities.They will gather evidence, if there is any to be had, as proof of what is happening. A guide to timescales is often given but it can only be a guide, the length of time it takes is all down to how frequently your partner meets with the ‘other person’ if they exist and how much time and money you want to throw at the investigation. Evidence generally comes in the form of photographs but can also be from recording devices planted in a person's home,office or car.

Whatever the approach it can prove a lengthy and costly process. People who are having an extra marital affair are usually discreet and go to great lengths not to get caught cheating ontheir partners. Infidelity investigation therefore involves someone spending long hours parked outside your house, a hotel,a restaurant or your partner’s office just in the hope that they are in the right place at the right time. Be sure this is the path for you before you hire an investigator or else you could pin your hopes on something that is going to fall at the first hurdle!

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Sign Of A Cheating Wife

Monday, September 18, 2006

Sign of a Cheating Wife

Sign of a Cheating Wife

Here are a few Cheating Wife signs:

1. Your cheating wife stops confiding in you and never asks your advice on anything.

2. They have a sudden urge to get fit, gym time, running, etc. They also tell you they want to do this fitness thing themselves, without you!

3. She sets up a new e-mail account but forgets to mention it to you.

4. Suddenly there will be longer working hours, work trips away from home, of course she tells you she absolutely hates them but has to go.

5. Becomes obsessed and irritated about phone calls, always wants to leave the room to answer the call.

6. A classic sign of a cheating wife, she must get to the mail and telephone first.

7. She starts taking 5 hours to get ready to go out instead of the usual 2 Hours!

8. If you ask where she has been, she will become very uncomfortable and defensive.

There are lots more signs, keep visiting Sign of a Cheating Wife for regular posts and visit some of our resources.

Steve
Sign of a Cheating Wife

Friday, September 15, 2006

Sign of A Cheating Wife

Sign of A Cheating Wife

Welcome to my new blog, how to spot a sign of a cheating wife. Sign of a cheating wife is dedicated to all the husbands that are used, abused, then discarded by thier cheating wife.

Visit often to get help and tips on the tell tale sign of a cheating wife.

Sign of A Cheating Wife