Andrew Bicknell writes about many topics, infidelity being one of them.
When you get that first inkling that something may be wrong with your marriage do you know the signs that you may have a cheating wife? If the signs are there it might be time to circle the wagons and make a decision as to how to handle the situation. Unfortunately handling a wife's infidelity is a emotional issue and for many men is something they don't even want to think about, let alone deal with. What you decide to do is entirely personal, no matter the advice one may get from family, friends and co-workers. Knowing the signs of a cheating wife at the very least gives you a head start on where your marriage may be going and how to best protect yourself emotionally and financially.
1. Changes in appearance - This one can go both ways. While it just may be nothing more than a change in her attitude about herself and how she wants to look it can also be a warning sign that she wants to look good for someone else. If she suddenly changes her hairstyle, has her nails done and dresses more provocatively you need to be worried why, particularly if you notice new lingerie in the laundry that she hasn't ever worn for you.
2. Diminished intimacy - Not only in the bedroom but in daily life as well. If you used to have the kind of relationship where you and your wife shared and talked about everything and she begins to distance herself from you there may be a problem that you need to investigate. In the bedroom she may no longer show any interest in being intimate with you or if she does she displays a whole new sexual repertoire and interest in new things. This can be good if it's something you've talked about, but if it just starts to happen for no apparent reason it can be a sign that she is learning new things somewhere else.
3. Less arguing and fighting - If your wife is not only distancing herself from you on an intimate level but also you notice you are not arguing with her as much as you used to it can be a sign she isn't interested in what you are doing whether it's good or bad in her mind.
4. Disinterest in family - Loss of interest in family functions and spending less time with not only you and the kids but with her extended family as well. This can be a sign of trying to hide whatever she's doing on the sly.
5. More phone and internet - If she's spending more time on the phone but out of earshot or late nights on the internet when you are asleep or doesn't want you around while she's doing whatever it is she's doing online can be a sign of a cheating wife.
6. Changes in children's behavior - If you have kids strange changes in their behavior can be a signal. It's not that they know the truth of what's going on but they are very perceptive to changes in their parent's behavior and will react to these changes in emotional and physical ways.
These are six good signs that your wife may be cheating. Each one taken alone may not mean much but if you notice 2 or more of these signs it is time to start thinking about taking some sort of action to find out the truth. Nobody wants to find out their wife is cheating on them but sometimes the best defense is a good offense.
About the Author
Andrew Bicknell researches and writes about a variety of subjects. To learn more about the signs of a cheating wife click here.
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Friday, October 06, 2006
Surviving infidelity
An excellent article by Simion Seru
How To Tell If Your Wife Is Cheating And more Importantly How To stop Her Cheating!
First of all let’s look at the obvious tell tale signs, that your wife is cheating, there are lots of them, but I believe these to be the best.
1. Suddenly, she takes four hours to get ready instead of two!
This is one of the best signs, appearance! New hair style or much more regular visits to the hair salon, different perfume, new clothes, new underwear, has her nails done, etc,etc.
2. Nips out to the shop dressed immaculately and returns two hours later saying she met an old friend from years ago.
3. She panics when the phone rings.
4. Here’s a classic, less arguing at home, she doesn’t mind if you go out with the lads, she lets you do things at home where she always used to moan, nag and make a big deal about it.
Well, there’s just a few of the better cheating wife signs, obviously there are lots more. These signs do not mean your wife is definitely cheating, but I would start taking a close look at her actions and movements. Please don’t jump in screaming, only to find out you were wrong, this could be disastrous.
But what also interests me is how to stop infidelity.
How to stop your wife cheating in the first place.
Be a gentleman! Sounds really corny, but a lady likes to be fussed over, she has to feel loved and needed. Buy her some flowers, chocolates, take her out to dinner, to the cinema. These are things every husband or boyfriend should be doing on a regular basis, it doesn’t mean you have to go crazy, but once a week, or even once a month, make her feel special.
She needs to be your best friend, you need to talk regular about anything and everything, take more of an interest in the things your wife likes, every now and then do something around the house that you don’t normally do, like, collecting the washing, bathing the kids, you may already do these, but simply make a small effort to help out with things you don’t normally do.
If you are reading this article, you probably suspect your wife is cheating, know she’s cheating, or have been cheated on and don’t want it to happen again. It’s not nice and also the husband is normally the last to know when his wife has been cheating.
Simion Seru is an expert in cheating spouses, how to stop spouses cheating and how to survive infidelity. For help and great resources go to, How To Tell If Your wife is Cheating
Sign of a cheating Wife
How To Tell If Your Wife Is Cheating And more Importantly How To stop Her Cheating!
First of all let’s look at the obvious tell tale signs, that your wife is cheating, there are lots of them, but I believe these to be the best.
1. Suddenly, she takes four hours to get ready instead of two!
This is one of the best signs, appearance! New hair style or much more regular visits to the hair salon, different perfume, new clothes, new underwear, has her nails done, etc,etc.
2. Nips out to the shop dressed immaculately and returns two hours later saying she met an old friend from years ago.
3. She panics when the phone rings.
4. Here’s a classic, less arguing at home, she doesn’t mind if you go out with the lads, she lets you do things at home where she always used to moan, nag and make a big deal about it.
Well, there’s just a few of the better cheating wife signs, obviously there are lots more. These signs do not mean your wife is definitely cheating, but I would start taking a close look at her actions and movements. Please don’t jump in screaming, only to find out you were wrong, this could be disastrous.
But what also interests me is how to stop infidelity.
How to stop your wife cheating in the first place.
Be a gentleman! Sounds really corny, but a lady likes to be fussed over, she has to feel loved and needed. Buy her some flowers, chocolates, take her out to dinner, to the cinema. These are things every husband or boyfriend should be doing on a regular basis, it doesn’t mean you have to go crazy, but once a week, or even once a month, make her feel special.
She needs to be your best friend, you need to talk regular about anything and everything, take more of an interest in the things your wife likes, every now and then do something around the house that you don’t normally do, like, collecting the washing, bathing the kids, you may already do these, but simply make a small effort to help out with things you don’t normally do.
If you are reading this article, you probably suspect your wife is cheating, know she’s cheating, or have been cheated on and don’t want it to happen again. It’s not nice and also the husband is normally the last to know when his wife has been cheating.
Simion Seru is an expert in cheating spouses, how to stop spouses cheating and how to survive infidelity. For help and great resources go to, How To Tell If Your wife is Cheating
Sign of a cheating Wife
Tuesday, September 19, 2006
Sign Of A Cheating Wife
Sign Of A Cheating Wife
Article Title: Infidelity Investigation by Terry Ross
If you have your suspicions that your partner is having anaffair, but for your own peace of mind you need to be surea bout the infidelity, investigation is an option but, before you go out and hire a private investigator, make sure that you know what you are getting yourself in to.
There is no doubt that infidelity is one of the hardest things anyone ever has to go through and the period when the first suspicions develop is one of the worst. The not knowing, just wondering where your partner is and what they are doing plays havoc with the mind and trying to decide what to do is painful.
There are many options to catch a cheating spouse and trying towade through them can be daunting but you need to be sure that before your infidelity investigation gets under way you have chosen the right option for you.
When choosing the route of private investigator one of the biggest mistakes you can make is to tell your partner that they are being investigated. Often it is in the heat of the moment and not something that was meant to come out but it does happen, in fact it happens a lot. People aren’t always so stupid as to let slip to their spouses but find it difficult not to confide in their friends, colleagues or family.
Infidelity is something that is difficult and for some people impossible to cope with alone but once you decide to confirm your suspicions of the infidelity, investigation through a private investigator is your chosen path, and the initial steps have been taken, you must be sure that you can go it alone. No one ever means to break a confidence but it is so easily done, just one slip of the tongue and it’s all over, the investigation is sabotaged.
If you decide to go for it make sure you are able to keep quiet, not just at the start but through the whole investigation even if early feedback appears to confirm what you originally thought you have to be able to keep quiet right to the end. You can’t confide in a friend and you can’t confront your spouse, you can’t even change in the way you act towards your partner. If you think you are up to it then your first step is to hire a licensed private investigator. The investigator, once instructed will basically follow your spouse and monitor their activities.They will gather evidence, if there is any to be had, as proof of what is happening. A guide to timescales is often given but it can only be a guide, the length of time it takes is all down to how frequently your partner meets with the ‘other person’ if they exist and how much time and money you want to throw at the investigation. Evidence generally comes in the form of photographs but can also be from recording devices planted in a person's home,office or car.
Whatever the approach it can prove a lengthy and costly process. People who are having an extra marital affair are usually discreet and go to great lengths not to get caught cheating ontheir partners. Infidelity investigation therefore involves someone spending long hours parked outside your house, a hotel,a restaurant or your partner’s office just in the hope that they are in the right place at the right time. Be sure this is the path for you before you hire an investigator or else you could pin your hopes on something that is going to fall at the first hurdle!
About The Author: For more marriage advice please visit
http://www.saveyour marriage. marriagehealth. com and
http://www.commonma rriageproblems. marriagehealth. com
Sign Of A Cheating Wife
Article Title: Infidelity Investigation by Terry Ross
If you have your suspicions that your partner is having anaffair, but for your own peace of mind you need to be surea bout the infidelity, investigation is an option but, before you go out and hire a private investigator, make sure that you know what you are getting yourself in to.
There is no doubt that infidelity is one of the hardest things anyone ever has to go through and the period when the first suspicions develop is one of the worst. The not knowing, just wondering where your partner is and what they are doing plays havoc with the mind and trying to decide what to do is painful.
There are many options to catch a cheating spouse and trying towade through them can be daunting but you need to be sure that before your infidelity investigation gets under way you have chosen the right option for you.
When choosing the route of private investigator one of the biggest mistakes you can make is to tell your partner that they are being investigated. Often it is in the heat of the moment and not something that was meant to come out but it does happen, in fact it happens a lot. People aren’t always so stupid as to let slip to their spouses but find it difficult not to confide in their friends, colleagues or family.
Infidelity is something that is difficult and for some people impossible to cope with alone but once you decide to confirm your suspicions of the infidelity, investigation through a private investigator is your chosen path, and the initial steps have been taken, you must be sure that you can go it alone. No one ever means to break a confidence but it is so easily done, just one slip of the tongue and it’s all over, the investigation is sabotaged.
If you decide to go for it make sure you are able to keep quiet, not just at the start but through the whole investigation even if early feedback appears to confirm what you originally thought you have to be able to keep quiet right to the end. You can’t confide in a friend and you can’t confront your spouse, you can’t even change in the way you act towards your partner. If you think you are up to it then your first step is to hire a licensed private investigator. The investigator, once instructed will basically follow your spouse and monitor their activities.They will gather evidence, if there is any to be had, as proof of what is happening. A guide to timescales is often given but it can only be a guide, the length of time it takes is all down to how frequently your partner meets with the ‘other person’ if they exist and how much time and money you want to throw at the investigation. Evidence generally comes in the form of photographs but can also be from recording devices planted in a person's home,office or car.
Whatever the approach it can prove a lengthy and costly process. People who are having an extra marital affair are usually discreet and go to great lengths not to get caught cheating ontheir partners. Infidelity investigation therefore involves someone spending long hours parked outside your house, a hotel,a restaurant or your partner’s office just in the hope that they are in the right place at the right time. Be sure this is the path for you before you hire an investigator or else you could pin your hopes on something that is going to fall at the first hurdle!
About The Author: For more marriage advice please visit
http://www.saveyour marriage. marriagehealth. com and
http://www.commonma rriageproblems. marriagehealth. com
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